
The Gen-Neutral event is opening tomorrow! I was excited to participate in this fair because it has to do with a subject that’s close to my heart. Everyone did a great job on their items, and there are a lot of great fashion choices available.
So–what do I have to relate to about this event? I’m genderfluid. Most of the time I present as a woman. But every now and again, I switch to male. I usually allow this to manifest by mask art and going under a male alt in SL, because I am very curvy in real life, but I am too happy with my body to want to transition and become a man. I also dress very casually or wear men’s clothes sometimes, but I do it in my own way–which reflects my fashion choices in SL, too.

I used to think that being a woman meant I had to wear girly things. But being a woman should be what you define it to be, for yourself. The clothing at the Gen-Neutral event, such as the awesome top and pants I’m wearing in this picture, are worn by tomboyish models at their stalls to show they are meant for everyone. But when I wear them, I make them my own.
You don’t have to cut your hair short to defy gender norms (or grow it long, if you’re a man). You don’t have to look like Ruby Rose or go to extremes in presentation. You can be you and dress how you want to dress. Define who YOU are, don’t let your gender do that for you. That’s what the Gen-Neutral event is about–giving you a choice.
To learn more about gender fluidity, watch these awesome videos.
What I’m Wearing
Pink Fuel – Morgana Apricot (brown brow RARE – Arcade)
Exile – Bewitched – Available at C88!
cheLLe – Artemis Eyeshadow (Mauve) – For Cosmetic Fair, September 15th!
cheLLe – Mix and Match Eyeshadow (Inner, Blue)
[ a.e.meth ] – Life’s A Drag! Contour Makeup*
breath – Autumn Set (Black, female hand)*
tomboi – Easton Suit (Pants, flamingo)*
LVLE – Pointed Flats (Black)
* available at the Gen-Neutral event
I think it’s really bad taste to snub certain designers from sharing a link at your blog. I will be removing your link from my blog today as it has been there for months and I’ve sent 3 request to be added to yours. I”ve made a lot of money (sales) in Secondlife during the years that I have created here, but am still obviously not good enough for you. I was certainly nice to you when we met and thought your shapes were lovely. Now I just am writing you off as someone who thinks she is better, are you sure you are better?
I usually exchange links if people want to. I even wrote that on my site! *points to sidebar*
Since you left an anonymous comment, I obviously have no idea who you are, what your site is, so I can’t add you now.
I admire SL residents’ passions, but sometimes you guys care me a little.. you come off as psychos with declarations like this.
It’s just a link.
Why am i not in your blogroll *cries* :(XDLU@#( 🙁
Hah! Just noticed I am not on your blogroll. Probably because I didn’t think to ask. At least the anonywhine reminded me to ask.
Cajsa, I added you just now, thank you for letting me know! I moved around a lot – from wordpress to typepad to my own domain. I lost a few links in the last move.
Pls add me too Miss Forgetful :))
why is this person slamming you on a post about a parcel for rent – sheesh!